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      <image:caption>Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My chapter is called “Healing Shame and Developing Healthy Shame in the Imaginal Realm.”</image:caption>
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      <image:title>About Sheila</image:title>
      <image:caption>My chapter is called “Women, Food and Feelings: Drama Therapy with Women Who Have Eating Disorders.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My chapter is called “Unpacking Shame and Healthy Shame: Therapy on the Phone or Internet.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My chapter is called “Embodied Life Stories: Transforming Shame Through Self-Revelatory Performance.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My chapter is called “Almost Magic: Working with the Shame that Underlies Depression; Using Drama Therapy in the Imaginal Realm.”</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My chapter is called “Myth, Mask and Movement: Ritual Theater in a Community Setting” and that is my photo of the mask.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>My chapter is called “Self-Revelatory Performance.” This was my first chapter!</image:caption>
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