Healing Shame in Inner Children - and Actual Children - 13 CE Credits
Dec
1
to Dec 2

Healing Shame in Inner Children - and Actual Children - 13 CE Credits

  • 830 Bancroft Way, Suite 102 Berkeley, CA 74710 USA (map)
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A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 10/29/18)
13 CE Credits* - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

Using Imaginal techniques, we join and explore the world of the child. Learn how to work effectively and add a healthy coach or caring inner parent to repair the shame ruptured parts from neglect or simply misattunements. Say hello to the part that wants to eat healthy and the part that wants ice cream. Say hello to the bully and the scary places.  Learn to listen deeply - and provide a champion or protector. We get to explore and re-enact scenes from childhood when a person was shamed and repair or replace what they wish they could have said.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Healing Shame - The Core Workshop - 13 CE Credits
Jan
26
to Jan 27

Healing Shame - The Core Workshop - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 12/21/18)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

In this workshop, you will learn how to help your clients recognize shame, work through it and move on. You will be able to help clients separate feelings of shame from other emotions. And you'll learn how to help clients out of the shame morass so they can move their energy powerfully outward rather than turn it against themselves.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Advanced 1: Giving Back the Shame - 13 CE Credits
Feb
2
to Feb 3

Advanced 1: Giving Back the Shame - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
With Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 12/28/18)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

This hands-on weekend workshop for advanced students provides a chance to practice specific techniques for working with shame so that you can be even more precise and effective in helping clients gently feel into and integrate their shame.  We will look at the moment-to-moment interaction between therapist and client and how to be both caring and forceful, both gentle and relentless, in helping your client to a more positive and accurate view of self and other. You will gain practical experience in attuning more fully to your clients and developing and keeping a safe container so that shame can be explored delicately, without overwhelming yourself or the client.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Melting the Shame Freeze: Using Somatic Resources to Heal Shame - 13 CE Credits
Feb
23
to Feb 24

Melting the Shame Freeze: Using Somatic Resources to Heal Shame - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 1/18/19)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

Shame is an embodied belief that “Something is wrong with me.” Because shame exists in the body as well as in the mind, it is helpful for therapists to work with shame somatically. In this workshop, we will explore how to utilize somatic techniques to connect more quickly with the client and forge a strong therapeutic alliance.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Melting the Shame Freeze: Using Somatic Resources to Heal Shame - Online Workshop (Fridays) - 13 CE Credits
Mar
1
to Mar 22

Melting the Shame Freeze: Using Somatic Resources to Heal Shame - Online Workshop (Fridays) - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 1/25/19)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

Shame is an embodied belief that “Something is wrong with me.” Because shame exists in the body as well as in the mind, it is helpful for therapists to work with shame somatically. In this workshop, we will explore how to utilize somatic techniques to connect more quickly with the client and forge a strong therapeutic alliance.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Melting the Shame Freeze: Using Somatic Resources to Heal Shame - Online Workshop (Saturdays) - 13 CE Credits
Mar
9
to Mar 16

Melting the Shame Freeze: Using Somatic Resources to Heal Shame - Online Workshop (Saturdays) - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 1/25/19)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

Shame is an embodied belief that “Something is wrong with me.” Because shame exists in the body as well as in the mind, it is helpful for therapists to work with shame somatically. In this workshop, we will explore how to utilize somatic techniques to connect more quickly with the client and forge a strong therapeutic alliance.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Sex and Shame - 13 CE Credits
Mar
30
to Mar 31

Sex and Shame - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 2/8/19)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

Sexuality is a vital, defining part of our identity. We are at our most vulnerable when we experience sexual feelings—therefore we're the most prone to feeling shame. In this workshop, we will offer tools you can use to help clients talk about, explore, and heal the sexual shame that can arise at any stage in the life cycle—and help them towards a life-affirming sexuality.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Healing Shame in Couples - 13 CE Credits
Apr
27
to Apr 28

Healing Shame in Couples - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
With Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 3/22/19)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

The more we care about each other, the more vulnerable we are to shame. In this workshop, we will explore the blame/shame game couples can fall into and learn how to help them stop shaming each other and work together to create a secure base and heal the wounds of the past.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Advanced 2: ShameShifting: Transforming Toxic Shame Into Healthy Shame - 13 CE Credits
May
25
to May 26

Advanced 2: ShameShifting: Transforming Toxic Shame Into Healthy Shame - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
With Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 4/19/18)
13 CE Credits* - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

In this new advanced workshop, we will learn to help ourselves and our clients shift the shame, transforming it from toxic freeze to helpful agent. How do we learn from and modify our words and behaviors without going into the toxic freeze state of shame? Even when we have been shamed or abused, how do we take responsibility for the part of what happened that is ours, even if it is quite small, and learn from it?  We will cover the shame produced in many situations in which we feel we have let someone down or broken some important rules, including affairs.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Healing Shame - The Core Workshop - 13 CE Credits
Sep
21
to Sep 22

Healing Shame - The Core Workshop - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 8/16/19)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

In this workshop, you will learn how to help your clients recognize shame, work through it and move on. You will be able to help clients separate feelings of shame from other emotions. And you'll learn how to help clients out of the shame morass so they can move their energy powerfully outward rather than turn it against themselves.

Visit www.centerforhealingshame.com for details and registration information.

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Through the Looking Glass: Using Imaginal Resources to Heal Shame - 13 CE Credits
Oct
19
to Oct 20

Through the Looking Glass: Using Imaginal Resources to Heal Shame - 13 CE Credits

A Workshop for Therapists and Other Helping Professionals
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Berkeley, CA

$350 ($325 if paid in full by 9/13/19)
13 CE Credits - CAMFT Approved CE Provider #134393

In this workshop, we will utilize techniques from Drama Therapy, Focusing, Expressive Arts Therapy, Psychodrama, Jungian active imagination and Hakomi to explore the critical voices and/or the childhood scenes that are still driving the internal shame dynamic in the client. Once the shame is worked through in the Imaginal Realm the client can interact with the world differently.

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Healing Shame: Understand and Transform - at the CAMFT 2018 Fall Symposium
Nov
10
1:30 PM13:30

Healing Shame: Understand and Transform - at the CAMFT 2018 Fall Symposium

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A workshop at the CAMFT 2018 Fall Symposium
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC

Shame is perhaps the most painful of all emotions. It is at the root of both the inner critic and perfectionism. It binds with and hides behind other emotions, such as anger and fear, so that it is often hard to detect. Shame cannot be worked with in the same way as the other primary emotions. In this presentation, you will become aware of shame as both a primary emotion and a freeze state, which has a profound effect on personal development and relationship success, and we will model how to counter shame in therapy. 

3 CE credits available

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Transformation - A Solo Performance
Sep
14
7:00 PM19:00

Transformation - A Solo Performance

Written and Performed by Sheila Rubin
Directed by Saun-Toy Trotter

San Francisco Fringe Festival

EXIT Stage Left Theatre
156 Eddy Street
San Francisco, CA 94102

$12.99 per ticket

In these four performances at the San Francisco Fringe Festival, a female magician goes back through the portals of time one last time to try to save her family. Sometimes the magic works. Healing shame may be the key.

This is an integration of Embodied Life Stories, Healing Shame and Self-Revelatory Performance and Sheila’s work as a therapist. Directed by Saun-Toy Trotter.

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Healing Shame in Families with Children from Rough Beginnings
Sep
15
9:00 AM09:00

Healing Shame in Families with Children from Rough Beginnings

with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD, SEP, BCC
Presented by Sierra Forever Families

Marysville, CA

FREE TRAINING Presented by Sierra Forever Families
CE credits available

Shame is at the root of most family disruption. Shame is the feeling that we are flawed or worthless and unworthy of being loved. When someone is in shame, they have great difficulty feeling loved.

This workshop will help parents, foster parents, adoptive parents and teens, as well as therapists, understand this powerful and mysterious emotion and learn how to begin to heal it.

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SoundsTrue Self Acceptance Summit
Sep
11
to Sep 20

SoundsTrue Self Acceptance Summit

How to Overcome Self-Judgment and Live a Life of Bravery, Compassion and Authenticity

FREE 10-day online summit with 31 leading experts in the field of self-acceptance and self-compassion. September 11 - September 20. 

Online Healing Shame Presentation
with Sheila Rubin, LMFT, RDT/BCT and Bret Lyon, PhD
Tuesday, September 19 at 9am PDT (noon EDT)

Bret and I will be presenting a Healing Shame presentation as part of the SoundsTrue online Self-Acceptance Summit - “How to Overcome Self-Judgment and Live a Life of Bravery, Compassion, and Authenticity” in September! We will join 30 renowned teachers including Marianne Williamson,  Elizabeth Gilbert,  Martha Beck, Adyashanti, Tara Brach, Anne Lamott, Caroline Myss, Iyanla Vanzant, Kristin Neff, Parker Palmer, and many more. 

For information about the summit and to register, click here

 

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Healing Shame in Couples Presentation
Apr
7
11:00 AM11:00

Healing Shame in Couples Presentation

Santa Rosa, CA

1.5 CE Hours
*CE hours are free for RECAMFT members or members of other CAMFT Chapters. Non-members who desire CE hours pay $15.

In this presentation, we will explore the blame/shame game couples can fall into and learn how to help them stop shaming each other and work together to create a secure base and heal the wounds of the past.

Registration link: www.recamft.org/event-2410667

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